Friday, January 9, 2009

"Go Away For A While. You'll Always Be Welcomed Back By Those Who Matter."

Two colleagues and I agreed on the following statement a half dozen or so years ago, and these days I believe in its truth even more than I did then:

...Individuals who are more willing than most to stretch themselves geographically tend to be more willing than most to stretch themselves intellectually, as well....

I often say the following to people--young and old and those in between--who say they are thinking of living far from their home town or city or state or country for a while:

"Go away for a while. If you stay away, fine. If, after a time, you feel like coming back home, that's fine, too. You'll always be welcomed back by those who matter."

2 comments:

The Travster said...

A statement that the 'oft-travelled' will certainly understand, and empathise with. After three years 'away', and two years prior to this stretch, you do you really find 'out who your friends are'... Fair call.

Hasslington said...

Trav--

It's great to hear from you, mate! Your observations on this subject dovetail quite well with both mine and Mrs. Hasslington's.